I have been married twice (even though I only count the 2nd) the first one lasted 6 months! But I think my boyfriend is going to propose soon. He is acting funny and asking odd questions. And I am getting very nervous. I never thought I wanted to get married again and I still don't but I love and want to be with him and have children so I will marry him when he asks. I think I am more uptight about having a wedding. I don't want to walk down an aisle, wear a dress, and all that stuff. I would prefer to go to an island and have a party after. But he has never had a wedding before. I will let him do whatever he wants but the thought of a formal ceremony makes me sick. How should this be handled? What could I wear? I don't want showers or anything like that. I would prefer just to show up one day married and be done with it. No hoopla! Also, I want to keep my maiden name along with using his but he does not like that. How can that be worked out? Any suggestions or advice is greatly appreciated. Also, how do I handle all the ignorant people who will make those 3rd times a charm remarks? That I can see making me really angry. Thank you!
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Nov 2, 2007, 12:30 PM
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Re: [Thundermist] 3rd marriage for me and his 1st
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You have a lot of questions so, may I suggest that you go to IDoTakeTwo.com to read up on second (and in your case third) weddings. If you still have questions please come back and ask them, one at a time. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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3rd marriage for me and his 1st
