I just recently got engaged. Both of us are young and have been married before and we are both having difficulty with choosing our attendants. Mainly, the MOH and the bridesmaids. Should the previous MOH and bridesmaids expect that they will be asked to fill these roles again?
The first time my MOH was my sister who i chose because I felt it was the right thing to do. We are by no means close and recently had a falling out. I would like her to be a member of the bridal party, not the maid of honor, however, I'm afraid of causing a rukus in a sense.
Thanks!
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Jun 26, 2008, 9:51 AM
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Re: Choosing the Same Attendants for Second Wedding
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Dear Sked,
There really is no reason to choose the same attendants if you don't want them. But, your sister may be insulted if you choose a different MOH and she is just an attendant. So, choose your words carefully when explaining it to her.
Choosing the Same Attendants for Second Wedding
