Is it appropriate to have a cash bar at a second wedding? I want people to have a good time and I don't want to appear cheap, but we just can't afford to pay for unlimited alcohol consumption.
Your advise on the current thinking on this would be greatly appreciated.
Deb
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Aug 22, 2004, 12:41 PM
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Consider this: If you were inviting these people to your home as your guests would you charge them for drinks? Of, course not. You would provide refreshments and a menu you could afford. The same goes for your invited wedding guests.
If funds are low, try serving just beer and wine. This will keep the cost down.
Many people these days are concerned about the liability that comes along with serving alcohol anyway. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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Aug 23, 2004, 10:26 AM
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Here, here. Please do not ask your guests to fund your reception. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
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Aug 23, 2004, 12:00 PM
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Having provided entertainment at numerous weddings, I would not suggest an open bar, which can put a big hole in your pocket. We feel that a wedding should be celebrated, with the bride and groom being the focus of attention, not drunken guests. If need be, serve only beer and wine. Guests less apt to consume too much this way.
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Do we have to provide free liquor?
