I recently got married with a private ceremony. I invited no guests because this was my second wedding and I didn't want to make a big deal about it. My mom wants to have a luncheon for me with my aunts, some friends and my two grandmas. We are trying to think of a proper way to address the invitations. There will be about 15 people people. We don't want to call it a shower. Any ideas?? Thank you
It definitely wouldn't be called a shower and gifts should not be expected or requested. Only those invited to the wedding should be invited to a shower. Plus, mothers should never host.
So, just invited them to a luncheon or brunch. No mention of the wedding is necessary. This could be your surprise.
Thank you Rebecca for taking the time to respond. My friends and relatives do already know we got married. We actually got married on 12/28/05. My mom really wanted to do something for me since the wedding was private and I didn't do it formally. Should we just call it a celebration luncheon? We are trying to word the invitations properly. Thank you.
Honestly, you can call this nearly anything you wish, besides a shower. You could call it a celebration or even a reception. It is your choice. The only thing you want to avoid is to imply with the name of the event, that this is a gift giving event. This would be viewed negatively.
If this were a formal event, you would worry about the title. But, with this being fairly informal, there really isn't anything to worry about.
A luncheon to celebrate the marriage or brunch reception is fine.
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