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LorieW1961

Jan 22, 2007, 10:37 PM

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Bridesmaid refuses to wear colors bride picked.

We have a MOH size 2, bridesmaid size 10 and size 22. The size 22 is refusing to wear the colors chosen by the bride. The bride only requested the color and told all three they could choose the style that they want. What do you do when one refuses?

Thanks

(This post was edited by TWQadmin on Jan 23, 2007, 7:26 AM)

Nancy Tucker
PRESIDENT - WEDDINGS BEAUTIFUL

Jan 23, 2007, 7:50 AM

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Re: [LorieW1961] Bridesmaid refuses to wear colors bride picked. [In reply to]

If she has agreed to serve as a bridesmaid, she should accept the brides choice no matter what. Remind her of this and communicate the need for her to comply. Hopefully this will appease her.
Nancy Tucker
President of Weddings Beautiful US
http://www.weddingsbeautiful.com

Etiquette Now
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Jan 23, 2007, 11:20 AM

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Re: [LorieW1961] Bridesmaid refuses to wear colors bride picked. [In reply to]

I completely agree, Lorie. Allowing the attendants to choose the style of dress is very generous. It really is time to discuss why the refusal.
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now