My fiance has asked one his best friends (female) to be an usher. She and I are friends and I think the world of her. I was planning on having her wear the same dresses as the bridesmaids. I am using a designer who allows us to select from different styles, so I think it will work nicely. Is that inappropriate? I would really like for everything to look consistent for the pictures.
I completely agree. Female attendants for the groom are dressed the same as yours. They typically wear the same corsage as the men though. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now