My sister asked me to be the maid of honor at her wedding I said yes. We pciked out the dresses and ordered them. I have one big problem I just found out I am preggo again, this was not planned and I am a little upset about it considering I have a 9 month old daughter who is the flower girl in the wedding set for July. How do I tell her? She is a bit of a bridzilla so I am afraid she will say hurtful things and kick me out and I dont want to deal with this since I am sorting my own feelings out about baby # 2. My next question is what to do about the dress? I'll be 6 months preggo by then.
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Jan 19, 2007, 10:54 AM
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Dear Hot,
All of this is a personal decision that only you can make. But, it is a must to inform your sister of this right a way. The dress is your responsibility. So if you are still in the wedding, you would have to see if it could be altered or if you need to purchase another one.
Your daughter is too young to be a flower girl. Children often panic in this situation.
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She is the flower girl we already have her dress she will be 15 months by then. I haven't ordered my dress tehy are just picked out, what do I tell them? Can they alter my dress for pregnancy?
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Jan 19, 2007, 11:02 AM
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Your daughter will still be too young. So, plan on some behavioral problems.
This is good news. It is best to speak to your sister soon. If you are still in the wedding, talk to the people where you are to purchase the dress. I'm sure they have had this problem before. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
hotmama85
Jan 19, 2007, 11:33 AM
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Thanks. We know she would be scared to walk down the aisle, so she is being pulled in a cart or soemthing like that. I think she will be ok, then her daddy will take her after she goes down the aisle.
Pregnant Maid of Honor- How to tell bride
, this was not planned and I am a little upset about it considering I have a 9 month old daughter who is the flower girl in the wedding set for July. How do I tell her? She is a bit of a bridzilla so I am afraid she will say hurtful things and kick me out and I dont want to deal with this since I am sorting my own feelings out about baby # 2. My next question is what to do about the dress? I'll be 6 months preggo by then.
