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Are Cathderal veils alright at a semi formal wedding?

 

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MsAngela


Jan 7, 2005, 4:16 PM

Post #1 of 6 (7478 views)
     Are Cathderal veils alright at a semi formal wedding?  

I have been arguing with my folks about this. My mother said its okay to have a cathderal veil during the wedding, but what about the reception? On the other hand, I can't imagine how some of the short veils look, I've wanted a huge wedding, but I really do not want too much glamour. Some folks may feel out of place; after all, most of my family is pretty much "hicks". What would be acceptable for both the cermony and reception, length wise?


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Bridal Stylist
WEDDING HAIR & BEAUTY EXPERT


Jan 7, 2005, 5:15 PM

Post #2 of 6 (7470 views)
     Re: [MsAngela] Are Cathderal veils alright at a semi formal wedding? [In reply to]  

Dear Ms. Angela,

The answer is yes, you can wear a Cathedral veil to a semi formal wedding.

Cathedral veils are very in right now too. You can have the veil bussled so that it looks shorter at your reception. You can bussle it with a safety pin or you can use a crystal or pearl pin for a touch of sparkle. This way you can have your veil any length you feel comfortable in.

Some brides also pin the veil to there sleeve, depending on the style of the dress.

Let me know what you decide on. In the end, all that really matters is how beautiful you feel on your wedding day.

If you have any other questions I would be more than happy to help.


Sincerely,
ModelBride
Lori of ModelBride.com
http://www.modelbride.com

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truelove
BRIDE

Jan 9, 2005, 1:53 PM

Post #3 of 6 (7421 views)
     Re: [MsAngela] Are Cathderal veils alright at a semi formal wedding? [In reply to]  

I think that a Cathedral length veil is very formal. I wouldn't wear it for a semi formal wedding. Then again, do what you want.
Fellow Bride

Nancy Tucker
PRESIDENT - WEDDINGS BEAUTIFUL


Jan 9, 2005, 2:18 PM

Post #4 of 6 (7411 views)
     Re: [Bridal Stylist] Are Cathderal veils alright at a semi formal wedding? [In reply to]  

Dear Lori,

I respectfully disagree with the use of the cathedral length for semi-formal weddings. As quoted:

Cathedral Length:
They are used for formal weddings and generally the veil will extend onto the floor at least six inches past the train. Cathedral length veil looks best when worn with a cathedral or semi-cathedral length gown.

Please let me know if this is not true.


Nancy Tucker
President of Weddings Beautiful US
http://www.weddingsbeautiful.com

Bridal Stylist
WEDDING HAIR & BEAUTY EXPERT


Jan 10, 2005, 9:38 AM

Post #5 of 6 (7404 views)
     Re: [Nancy Tucker] Are Cathderal veils alright at a semi formal wedding? [In reply to]  

Dear Nancy and Ms. Angela,

In fashion there are so many options, so the bride can have the best of both worlds. I had suggested a cathedral veil for her ceremony so that she can feel glamorous, and then she can have it bussled to an appropriate length for her reception. The bride could even take the veil off, if she feels more comfortable doing that.

Ms. Angela could you please give me little more information on the dress, (Ex. length, and beading). Also can you please tell me, what time is your ceremony, reception and where?

Sincerely,
Lori of ModelBride.com
http://www.modelbride.com

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GContiMillinery
Hats / Headpiece Expert


Jan 10, 2005, 6:14 PM

Post #6 of 6 (7397 views)
     Re: [MsAngela] Are Cathderal veils alright at a semi formal wedding? [In reply to]  

Dear Ms. Angela:

True, Cathedral length veils are traditionally formal.
The key word here is "traditionally". Your question is a bit vague. Is it you, or your mother, that wants a Cathedral length veil???
If you want a Cathedral length veil, I must agree with Lori, it is your wedding... have what you really want.

What you must consider, before deciding on any headpiece, hat, veil styling or accessory, is how the entire ensemble fits/blends together and looks on you.

Does your dress lend itself to a Cathedral length veil? Is it very formal? How are the bridesmaids, groom & groomsmen dressed?
Is the ceremony location formal and have an aisle long enough to trail a Cathedral length veil?

If you decide the Cathedral length veil is what you want, I further agree to "bustle" the veil up for the reception, or, if you have your veil custom made, you may have the options of removing the Cathedral length veil then attach a shorter one for the reception (or detach the veil altogether from the headpiece). With either of these choices, keep the tulle/lace fabric very light, without too many gathers.

If you decide to remove the veil altogether after your photos are taken, consider wearing a lovely headpiece (feathers and sparkle are fun) or a simple tiara for the reception.

Take a deep breath, think about what YOU want and what best compliments your dress. You can't help but be beautiful... you're the BRIDE!
Congratulations!
Gena Conti, Designer, Milliner
http://www.genaconti.com


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