I would advise that if you want to incorporate gold into your color pallette - a gold organza ribbon around each bridemaids bouquet (with flowing ribbon ends) may be the perfect solution to add that spark of color into your wedding.
A deeper violet would be a better compliment to a gold rather than a light lilac. Gold shoes may bring too much attention to their feet if their dresses are tea length. Amy of PerfectBridal.com http://www.perfectbridal.com