Is it appropriate for the Ring bearer, who is 2 yrs & 8 months old, to wear a tuxedo, if the flowergirl is wearing a French Hand sewn dress. I think he should wear the little shorts outfit, does it matter one way or the other as far as etiquette goes?
The Eaton, which is the little pant outfit you mentioned, is the tuxedo typically worn by little boys. Plus, a tuxedo isn't worn during the day, although the Eaton may.
A mini tux would be fine also, if this was held during the evening.
However, he is probably too young for this position. More than likely he will scream and run for the nearest skirt to hide under.