My nephew who is four will be our ring bearer for an October wedding. Should his vest with the tuxedo match my future husband's (Victorian gold paisley) or that of the groomsmen and his dad who will be my escort (Black vest/tie)? His sisters ages 4 and 7 will be wearing ivory like me.
Typically the ring bearer wouldn't wear a tux. Since he is and the girls as dressed formally, it would be best to match his vest with that of the groomsmen.
Ring bearer Attire
