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MOB in cream color gown?

 

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Cherdon


Jun 23, 2007, 9:26 AM

Post #1 of 4 (1487 views)
     MOB in cream color gown?  

My daughter wasn't sure I should wear a cream color gown because she is afraid that people will notice it more than her bright white gown. I told her "impossible" that anyone would ever think that the mother outshined the bride.

Her maid of honor will be in black and bridesmaids in claret *wine*

I was told that the MOG has already purchased her gown and it is gold. (I took note on this board that she should have waited until I purchased mine)

The only gown I could find in all the shops at the mall was a pretty cream with sequins on the top edge of the neckline and on the sleeves of the jacket. The gown is of silky material with netting at the bottom. It is pretty. (I know reading this description it sounds like a bridesmaid or prom dress - but it really doesn't look that way)

All the other gowns I found had huge floral prints and looked to me like *elderly lady* dresses like my mother would wear and others were just plain drab one color long gowns that looked like a sack.

My question really is: Is it okay for me to wear cream?



Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT


Jun 24, 2007, 4:03 PM

Post #2 of 4 (1446 views)
     Re: [Cherdon] MOB in cream color gown? [In reply to]  

Dear MOB,

Shades of white are no longer taboo for mothers. However, we would never wear anything that could be worn as a bridesmaid's dress or a wedding dress. Yours sounds as if it could be worn by an older bride. So, I would suggest finding something else. I find many flattering gowns all of the time. Perhaps you could look at stores other than bridal stores.

Plus, sequins are for the evening and are considered formal.

Best wishes,
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now



Cherdon


Jun 24, 2007, 6:48 PM

Post #3 of 4 (1438 views)
     Re: [Et.byRebecca] MOB in cream color gown? [In reply to]  

Eeks ... I never thought about sequins being evening formal.

I bought it at Bon Ton. I searched JCPenney, Macy's, Sears, and the bridal shop and ended up with this one.

Thank you for your reply ..... you answered my question about the cream color ..... now you have me worried about the sequins *laugh* ....

Think I will keep looking and use this as a last resort if I cannot find something else .... The wedding is in October. :)

Thanks again



Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT


Jun 25, 2007, 11:39 AM

Post #4 of 4 (1414 views)
     Re: [Cherdon] MOB in cream color gown? [In reply to]  

You have plenty of time then. It would be best to look some more.
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now





 
 


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