Noticed no posts on Stepmother of the Groom. Don't know what role if any I should be expect to play. I know the MOG is shopping for her Oct wedding date dress. I have not been given any info on the MOB's dress or what MOG is expecting to wear. Does what I wear have to coordinate? Unfortunately this is the first blended family event after a nasty divorce.
Please use the search tool. We have had many posts regarding step mother's roles and what they should wear.
But, basically, you'll go by whether or not you're being treated as one of the mothers. Typically, step parents are treated as honored guests and would dress as the guests dress. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".