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Does the male wedding party need to match?

 

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binxgal




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     Does the male wedding party need to match?  

My fiance and I were discussing the tuxedos that he and the groomsmen would be wearing. He told me that his best man already owns a tuxedo so he will not need to rent one, and that he probably wouldn't rent one if asked. I told my fiance that my concern is whether his bestman's tux will match everyone else, but he replied that the bestman should look a little different from the rest. Even if the tuxedo suit isn't a big deal, the other issue is the accessories (shoes, vest, tie, etc.)
I don't want to argue with him about this. What should I do? What is the proper etiquette for the groom and his groomsmen attire? Should I just let it be and let him do whatever he wants, or put my foot down on this matter? HELP! Thanks in advance.

tuxedosdirect
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     Re: [binxgal] Does the male wedding party need to match? [In reply to]  

Dear Binxgal,

It is my opinion that it is a honor to be in a wedding party, and by no means should this guy compromise your wedding by not agreeing to rent a tuxedo because he already owns one. What will it cost him, maybe $150 or less? If it's such a big deal for him, then let him have the free tuxedo that the tuxedo shop will give (normally the groom takes it). Come on, this is a special day, dont let this guy ruin it. The wedding party should look uniform, not the best man standing out; only the groom should stand out.

Regards,
David of TuxedosDirect


(This post was edited by TWQadmin on Jan 10, 2005, 7:47 AM)



 
 


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