I actually have a question on proper shoes. I have never, ever worn a pair of heels or boots without falling flat on my face, and as I am a rough-and-tumble girl that is not in the least bit feminine, I was planning on simply decorating some new, white tennis shoes and wearing those for my walk down the aisle. I would be much more comfortable doing so, and I am assuming that no one is going to remember (or even see) my shoes, as I am wearing a floor length dress with a little bit of a train.
When my MIL (who I am very close to) asked what my wedding clothes would be, however, she was horrified at my choosing to wear comfortable tennis shoes rather than try heels for such a formal occasion. Her response was "you would look great in heels," as well as trying to also persuade me to wear sandals instead (which I am also uncomfortable with). What should I wear, and how should I explain to her if in the event that I wear tennis shoes (which I'm strongly leaning towards anyway)?
While I understand why you would want to wear tennis shoes, I have to say that for this occasion, you should wear formal shoes. What I suggest is that you find a shoe that is around one inch high, since you seem to be worried about falling, and practice walking in them before hand.
By the way, guests are much more observant than you think and will see that you are wearing tennis shoes. Even floor length gowns lift at some point.
Cheers! Rhonda Allen, Bridal Consultant New Beginnings Weddings
I know you will see these sold online and in some shops but I agree with Rhonda. Save these tennis shoes to chnage into for the dancing later on. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
I couldn't agree more. But, I also understand about balance, as I have a problem as well.
Those beautiful ballerina slippers may be a very good choice. If you chose a pair in a satiny material, it may appear charming. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
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