Should step divorced stepparents and grandparents be listed in a wedding program etiquette. The bride feels like her relationship with her stepmother has changed since she divorced her father, but she is invited to the wedding and has been really wonderful with all of the pre-wedding things. The bride has in the past and still today feels very close with the stepgrandparents. I think would be wrong to include just the grandparents and not the stepmother in the program. What' proper?
Only those who will be seated specially or elements of the wedding are mentioned. These are the things guests will need to know. If these people are being seated specially, they should be mentioned.
You could create a special section for 'special people in my life'. These special people could be seated before the mothers and grandmothers if they are being seated specially.
All of this is optional as these rules are not firm.