my daughter is working on her wedding program and has come to a crossroad... she has 3 bridesmaids, one is a cousin, one is a friend, and one is sister of groom... in which order should they appear, one post indicates to list as they appear at the alter, another indicates to list them as the enter the ceremony...
the mother of the cousin wants her daughter listed first while when looking at the alter she is the furthest away from the bride...
while the bride had intended on listing them as they appear at the alter,