Hi, I've asked one of my bridesmaids (who is not my MOH) to sing at the signing of the registry during my ceremony. Her feelings were hurt I think when she wasn't asked to be MOH, so I thought it would be nice to give her something else really special to do. She used to sing very well but over the years hasn't practiced or sang at all. I was hoping you could offer me a few song suggestions that would be easy for her to sing yet still meaningful to the ceremony. I'm worried she may pick something that is too difficult etc. She will be singing with a piano player. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I tried to post this under music but was having difficulties with the 'post new' button coming up. Thanks,
Actually, it is my experience that singers know their voice range better than anyone. Why not ask her to give you a few suggestions? You can gently tell her that she need only pick music that she feels comfortable singing. Then choose. I have one brief story that is a bit different than your situation but relevant. One bride really wanted her violinist to play a certain piece, not really made for a violin solo. Also, it was not a piece he did NOT feel comfortable playing. I will never forget it, as the result was painful to to the ear.
I think it is wonderful that you have asked her to sing! Whenever a soloist sings at a ceremony, it usually brings tears to my eyes. Music is prayer.
Ah, a singing Bridesmaid! Here's a thought. In some of the weddings that I deliver here in Seattle, couples often opt for a song, particularly when it accompanies a specific ritual, i.e., unity candle, handfasting, gift giving, etc. If a song is too long, if not delivered well, it can be uncomfortable for everyone involved. What about having your friend practice and contribute an appropriate and uplifting reading instead of a song? Annemarie Juhlian, Wedding Officiant & Minister
We're not quite sure what you mean by singing at the "signing of the registry'. That is not done during the ceremony, but a simple song for her to sing would be "The Wedding Song" or something like "You Are So Beautiful". They both don't have too much of a range. You definitely want to make sure that she rehearses with the piano player or they might very well go bumbling through an important moment of your wedding. Barbara & Gloria of Wedding Music Central http://www.weddingmusiccentral.com
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