I would like to have a small white wedding but apart from my brother giving me away and my fiancees friends being his best man there don't seem to many jobs for anyone else. In particular my best friend (not very religious), my Mum and my fiancees sister. Any ideas on things which they could do to let them know how much they mean to us?
Your family and friends could be selected to offer a reading or (if they have talent) a song. You could have a family unity candle ceremony where everyone participates in lightoing the candles.
Someone could hand out programs or be an usher / bridesmaid. At the reception perhaps have someone in charge of the guest book. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".