I want a decently long wedding (not just in say "i do" and out). I was thinking of having my dad walk me down the aisle and my mom walking out and meeting us at the end of the aisle. Then I want a little reading of why they are "giving" me away. Then ask who gives me away. Are there any readings that you can help me with so that my parents have something to say other than "Her mother and I do!" ?
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Here is a variation of what I have written in my book:
"(Your name), (your age number) years ago you were born to us. From the moment we first laid eyes upon you, we felt truly blessed. We have nurtured you all these years so that you would grow up to be strong, independent, capable of great love---capable of what you are doing today. We now entrust you, our most precious child to (husband's name). (Placing bride's hand into husband's hand.) (Husband's name), please care and love her with all of your heart. Welcome to our family."
If you are religious, you may add: May God bless and keep you both.
You don't have the use my words. However, you get the idea!
Consider this: Yes, you can have your parents say something that is memorized - that is often lovely. Or, you can ask your parents to share words that come from their heart at that moment - this gives them time to think about their contribution to your wedding ceremony and plan accordingly. Annemarie Juhlian, Wedding Officiant & Minister