My fiance and I are being married by a Judge. THis is my second wedding, his first. The ceremony will be held at the same place as the reception. Very small bridal party. These types of ceremonies are short, i know that, but how can i personalize it somehow. It will most likely be outdoors. Thanks.
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RevSusanna
Interfaith Wedding Minister
Apr 19, 2007, 9:47 PM
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Re: [carolmarie] Personalizing ceremony -for a second wedding
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Many judges will perform a ceremony that you write yourself. So why not write your own ceremony?! Research the internet (including this website), books (including mine) as to readings, vows and humanist blessings. My book will show you exactly how to write your ceremony, the structure, the flow, the words, the rituals, the details and logistics. Choose that which feels right and that which pierces your heart. A honored guest or family can do a reading. You can write and recite your own vows. Native American blessings are beautiful and absolutely perfect for an outdoor ceremony. You can have someone play an instrument or sing a solo. Or simply play the music that you love on a portable boom box as you process. After the ceremony, why not have each guest come up and bestow a personal blessing (good wishes for your future life) while sprinkling rose petals upon you? Or perhaps you prefer the blowing of bubbles? In one humanist ceremony I did the bride and groom handed each guest a flower with an attached personal note. In another intimate outdoor ceremony, the guests rang Tibetan handbells at the end of the ceremony. In another, the couple released butterflies which were captured earlier in a small tent just for the occasion. I recited the famous Butterfly Legend in my book while each guest made a special wish for the bride and groom.
Personalizing ceremony -for a second wedding
