My stepdad has raised me since I was 13 so there is no question he will walk me down the aisle on 10/14 when I get married. My biological father will be there too, as will my mother, whom is now divorced from my stepdad (rather unpleasant divorce). I want to include my father and my mother in the ceremony. This is my idea, when the pastor asks "Who gives this woman to be married to this man" I want my father to take a stand next to my stepdad and for my mom to take a stand next to me and for all three of them to reply with "we do"...is this appropriate?