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thale28


Mar 26, 2007, 6:24 PM

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     Pronouncement of Marriage  

Divorced mother of two boys & divorced father of two girls getting married. Bride (me) is not changing last name. How do we request our officiant appropriately announce us as a married couple, when we will have different last names.

Let me be the first to introduce, Mr. & Mrs..... (no we're not)?

I'm stumped. Please help.



RevSusanna
Interfaith Wedding Minister


Mar 26, 2007, 6:49 PM

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     Re: [thale28] Pronouncement of Marriage [In reply to]  

    

That's easy! Just tell your officiant to skip that part--- the "Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you for the very first time, Mr. and Mrs..." Let the recessional music play with the kiss. The kiss will be the end of the ceremony.

Another alternative: Your officiant can say, "Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you our newlyweds."

A third option: Mr. and Mrs. hyphenated names.

A fourth option: Make an exception just for the announcent. There is nothing legal about it. It's just a tradition, a gesture.

I hope this helps!

Blessings,

Susanna
Reverend Susanna Stefanachi Macomb
Author of Joining Hands and Hearts, Interfaith, Intercultural Wedding Celebrations, A Practical Guide for Couples



(This post was edited by RevSusanna on Mar 26, 2007, 6:50 PM)





 
 


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