My fiance and I really love the idea of having a Unity Candle and I was just wondering if it was only limited to those with a religious background. Neither of us are religious and would like to avoid any religious comments at the wedding ceremony that would not only make us feel comfortable but the guests as well.
I have searched the internet trying to find an answer and all I am getting is the story behind it. I know it's from the Protestants and signifies the two becoming one... but the information wasn't what I was looking for.
Please help, Thank you!!!
Heather
RevSusanna
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May 10, 2007, 3:19 PM
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Re: [Heather6708] Unity Candle Do's and Dont's???
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Hello Heather!
The lighting of the Unity Candle can be done either religiously or non-religiously. In my book, the The Unity Candle is listed under Christianity with a quote from the bible. However, under the chapter of "General Wedding Traditions and Rituals", it is listed simply as Candlelighting with four to five explanations. Here are two:
Celebrant: “[Bride] and [groom], you have committed yourselves through solemn vows. Your life is now one. May your love be an indestructible force. May it shine as a beacon example. Together please now light the candle symbolizing your sacred union.
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Celebrant: “For over three thousand years, human beings have used candles as a source of light. They are also symbols of warmth, of hope, and of life itself. Would you now each, from your own candle, light a third as a symbol of your new relationship.” [From the American Humanist Association]
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You will find many lovely non-religious Unity Candles on line. Or you may get your candle/s at Pottery Barn if you wish. Some of my couples have used a candelabra that belong to their parents or grandparents for added meaning.
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This is an article on second wedding ceremonies but I think it has some good information about the unity candle ceremony. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
Unity Candle Do's and Dont's???
