[font "Arial"][size 2]My future mother-in-law would like her great-nephews, boys ages 3 and 5, to usher her to her seat. My fiancee and I do not think this is appropriate and would prefer her to be ushered by an adult. We suggested she be ushered by a groomsmen, or her husband, or even by my fiancee, the groom. We purposely chose to have no children in the wedding party as we have many young children in the family and did not want to show favoritism among them. [/size][/font][font "Arial"][size 2] Are we wrong to want an adult to usher her down the aisle? [/size][/font]
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Mar 13, 2008, 10:01 AM
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Re: [soontobemrsc] Young children ushering mother of groom
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Dear Soontobemrsc,
No you are not wrong. In fact, the 3 year old is too young and may become scared. If you and your fiance agree on what you want, then you should proceed with your plans. And, I agree that having some but not all children involved may cause hurt feeling.
Re: [soontobemrsc] Young children ushering mother of groom
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I don't have as big an issue with the kids escorting her down (she may actually make them feel more comfortable), but I do agree that it's the bride's decision. If you want escorted by an adult, she should oblige. Shayna Walker, Williamsburg Wedding Design http://www.williamsburgweddingdesign.com
Young children ushering mother of groom
