Is it best to tell the Pastor that I am pregnant when we go meet with him to discuss our wedding?
RevSusanna
Interfaith Wedding Minister
Jan 23, 2007, 11:13 AM
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Re: [kae97] pregnant, do we tell the Pastor
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In my opinion, this is a personal choice. Do you have a personal relationship with your pastor? If you feel you want him/her to know, or you wish to discuss it with him/her or need counseling, then do. If If you are showing, or will be showing at the time of the ceremony, it might be a good idea. If you are overjoyed about the pregnancy and everyone at the family knows about it, and you wish to make mention of it during the ceremony (i.e. include a blessing upon your new family), then do. Otherwise, you can certainly keep it to yourself.
God bless your marriage and the new life growing within you.
Re: [kae97] pregnant, do we tell the Pastor
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I fully agree with Rev. Susanna. This is a very personal choice and there are no "shoulds" here. Do what is right for yourself, your partner and what honors this precious new life. Annemarie Juhlian, Wedding Officiant & Minister
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