My son and his bride were married by a Justice of the Peace two months ago (His second-Her first). Her family has asked for addresses for of people we want to receive a wedding announcement and/or shower invitation.
My son did not have a large wedding before, but several family members gave gifts. It doesn't seem right to send shower invitations to them for his second wedding. (I don't know which family members gave gifts the first time.)
I was also asked if there was someone who might want to help hostess the shower. There will only be one shower and evidently there will be a large guest list on the bride's side with just a few hostesses.
I want to do the right thing...for the couple, but also for family and friends that have been supportive in the past.
Any suggestions
Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT
Nov 30, 2004, 6:58 PM
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Re: [LHugh] Annoucements and gifts for second marriage of son
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Dear Announcements and Gifts,
Please don't be too timid here. This is a new life that your son is beginning and many may wish to share in the entire experience. Those who do not want to attend the shower won't. Plus, this is a first wedding for your future daughter-in-law. She will want to experience it all.
As for the hostess problem, obviously you cannot host it. That is not polite. But, if you know of someone who may wish to act as hostess, ask. You can always help from afar. You won't know who really wants to be involved until you talk to the others who love your son.
Annoucements and gifts for second marriage of son
