I have a cousin who was supposed to have a big wedding last year. Long story short she got pregnant and had a small backyard wedding. Now she has decided to have her big wedding this summer. The wedding is going to be apx three hours from most guests homes. She also plans on having a wedding shower because she did not have one last year. She has had an engagement party, baby shower, small wedding, christening, which I bought gifts for. What is my obligation and what should theirs be? Are they being greedy at this point?
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Re: [cpolvino] Another wedding after pregnancy and small wedding
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Dear Cpolvino,
I don't know if I would stop at that word. But, yes. None of this is proper. She is already married, so she cannot have a wedding. Plus, only those invited to the wedding may be invited to a shower. There should be no shower, no engagement party, no pretend wedding.
Another wedding after pregnancy and small wedding
