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Asking wedding guests to donate to charity.

 

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Vandna


Jan 28, 2007, 1:14 PM

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     Asking wedding guests to donate to charity.  

We are having an open bar at the reception and we would like to include a slip indicating that we would like our guests to make a donation to a chosen charity. We don't want to make it sound that they have to pay for their drinks, but that if they made a contribution we would be grateful

Thanks


(This post was edited by TWQadmin on Jan 28, 2007, 1:36 PM)

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Jan 28, 2007, 5:48 PM

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     Re: [Vandna] Asking wedding guests to donate to charity. [In reply to]  

Dear Vandna,

This would be inappropriate on many levels. We shouldn't impose a charity on our guests, especially during a reception. And, we never ask for money. Plus, asking for the donation for a drink is like asking your guests to pay for their drinks. We don't do this as hosts.

It seems that you want to promote a charity, which is a great idea. We just don't do this during a reception.

Best wishes,
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now

(This post was edited by TWQadmin on Jan 28, 2007, 6:10 PM)

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Jan 28, 2007, 6:11 PM

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     Re: [Vandna] Asking wedding guests to donate to charity. [In reply to]  

I agree with Rebecca. If you want to donate to a charity, make a donation on behalf of your guests in lieu of favors.
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