There have been lots of conflicting etiquette opinions written about inviting children. Some say it's an all or nothing deal. Personally, I feel only those closest to the couple should be invited. So, it only makes sense to me that if you want to invite an adult you're close to and you're not close to her child then just invite the adult. But, this is just my opinion. Parents seem to be very sensitive on the subject of their children and feel they should be welcomed everywhere and anywhere they are. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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May 4, 2007, 9:57 AM
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Re: [jenwill66] Can we invite just family's children to the wedding and not others?
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I agree. According to etiquette 'rules' a host can invite whom ever she wishes. But honestly, when a host invites some children and not others many times guests are not happy. They tend to wonder why they didn't get to bring their children, as parents tend to be protective of their children--a no brainer. So, although it is per etiquette standards to invite the children of close family members, it may not be the best choice if you want happy guests.
It is definitely your choice. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
Can we invite just family's children to the wedding and not others?
