Hello, I invited this friend months ago to my wedding. However on the bachelorette party we had a falling out and haven't spoken since. She didn't come to my shower last weekend either.
Can I ask her and her boyfriend if they're still coming to the wedding (I'm assuming they're not?). I'm drawing up the seating arrangements with 3 weeks to go, so I would like to know if I need to re-jig things around or not, and I don't want to set places for people that aren't going to show up.
Would it be a rude question to ask, since they've previously replied in the affirmative?