My husbands brother is getting married in three months. He still has not asked ANYONE to be his groomsmen. His wife-to-be wants to know when should he start asking someone to be his groomsman. I (sister-in-law) want to know when is the proper time to ask someone to be in the wedding party. In the past, my husband has been in five other weddings and has had anywhere between 12-9 months notice of being asked to be a groomsmen/best man.
You and the bride are so right, it is considered incorrect to ask attendants at the last minute. To say nothing of being inconsiderate of their situations. Nancy Tucker President of Weddings Beautiful US http://www.weddingsbeautiful.com