My parents are paying for my wedding, and they want to invite my Dad's former college classmates, a tight group from a military academy who get together once a year. The problem is, one of them pursued me as a romantic suitor a decade ago, which I thought was creepy. I don't feel comfortable having him at the wedding, but my parents feel it's rude to exclude him if the other classmates are coming. What's the etiquette here?
The key here is that it is your wedding, even if your parents are paying for it. So, if you do not want the crib stealing person at your wedding, he should not be there. It is your comfort level that is important.
Can you imagine having his face in some of your wedding pictures?
If your parents feel so strongly, perhaps they should not invite any of them.
Just my opinion.
Congratulations on your up-coming wedding! Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
Guest List: Rejected Suitor, Family Friend
