How do you deal with people coming to your wedding that may cause problems?
I am worried about a few people who have bad reps coming to my wedding. They are so rude, and they can be so mean towards just about everyone they meet. Many people I know who have met them have said they leave a bad impression on them.
One of my guests wants to invite a few friends, I don't really know one of them, the other I met a couple times and boy. Have they been totaly rude? They don't even act polite in public for a adult. They drink and do alot of other things who knows what else? My family is pretty religious, I was wondering how can I handle the situation without hurting one of my other friends that I did invite? Thanks
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Re: [lady] How do you deal with people coming to your wedding that may cause problems?
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Dear Lady,
You only invite people to your wedding that you want to be there. Don't invite these people. It doesn't sound as if you even want to be around these people. If any of your friends say that they want to invite someone to your wedding, it is appropriate and correct to tell them no. You invite, they do not. It is better to confront this problem now, than have to hire a bouncer to boot these strangers from your wedding.
It is not impolite to tell people, even friends, what you will and will not allow in your life. This is simply being honest.
How do you deal with people coming to your wedding that may cause problems?
