My question is in regards to my future Mother in Law's boyfriend. He is a rather unsavory person, to put it politely, and neither my fiancé nor I like his company and we do not want him to attend our wedding. Lately, after they have broken up and been in numerous fights, my mil and this man have decided that they might become more serious and move in together. My questions is: Is it okay to ask future moother in law not to bring her boyfriend to the wedding even if they are living together? I'm just so confused because this is my fiancé's mother, and neither he nor I want to over step our boundaries.
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Re: [ConcordiaP] Inviting Mother's Boyfriend to the Wedding
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Dear Concordia,
We should invite all significant others. However, if we feel that this person could be a threat in any ways, it is appropriate not to.
This should be handled very carefully and with plenty of tact. It would be best for your fiance to speak to his mother about it and not just surprise her with the invitation that only invites her.