MOB and sisters of groom give shower - right or wrong?
I just rec'd invitation to a shower to be given at an area country club, hosted by the MOG and the groom's 2 sisters. Is this some kind of new etiquette that is 'new age'??????
It baffles me that the MOG didn't just call her closest friends or relatives and ask them if they'd do this. The lady is really nice person - this baffles me.
I have no idea if the bride is from this state or city, or if the married sisters are part of the wedding party. The wedding will be in the groom's hometown, which is in the 'south'.
This one 'takes the cake' - sorry for the pun. Hope you'll give your 'take' (or give) on this one.
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Jan 16, 2007, 4:02 PM
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No, this is still not viewed positively. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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Jan 16, 2007, 5:10 PM
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I meant to title it "MOG" - Mother of Groom - but body of the text did say MOG (groom) SOOOO, does that change your opinion? I hope not! If it does, how do you justify it?
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The answer remains the same. Family should not host showers unless they area member of the bridal party.
But, I'm wondering what you'll do with this information.
Remember, it is considered inappropriate to point out when someone else is being ill mannered.
If you find the event distasteful simply decline the invitation. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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Thank you. What I'll do with this info is nothing. Should anyone ever ask my opinion about this in the future, I will just say I consulted with a wedding etiquette expert of the 21st century, and tell them what I learned.
I guess what peaked my interest is that a few years ago when our son was married, our married daughter was a hostess (of about 6) who helped with a shower for our daughter in law. She wasn't sure if it was 'proper', but was assured it was okay. She herself was not in the wedding, but our 2 grandsons were.
As for THIS shower and wedding, I'll just go if I can, give a gift, and be happy for the bride and groom! (and keep my mouth shut!)
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Jan 16, 2007, 7:39 PM
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Good plan!
A good shower gift is Emily Post's newest book, simply called Etiquette. It's not just for weddings but she's got a huge wedding section in there. I have it and it makes a great reference to have around the house. Of course, you could always just come on back and check here too! Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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