The RSVP date for our wedding has past and there are still a number of people that have not responded. I am offended that people have not responded. Further we are working to tight numbers and budget and therefore there are people that we were unable to invite. Do we wait and see if people respond? Do we follow up and see if they are coming? Do we send them a letter saying sorry they could not make it we will be thinking of them on the day? other? (I know the last option is a bit tough but as I said I am offended and feel there are other friends that would have jumped at the chance of coming along and would have enjoyed the occasion as I would have their company.
Please don't take the procrastination personally; there could be some very valid reasons these guests have not responded that have nothing at all to do with the way they feel about you or your wedding.
Don't despair, you can certainly call these non-responders and politely ask if they will attend. If you leave a voice mail and they don't respond in a few days I would assume they are not coming and go ahead and invite others in their place if you wish. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
Missing RSVPs
