My fiance and I are planning a rehearsal dinner. Cost is an issue as we are paying for it ourselves. Without any additional people beyond bridal party, parents, and the pastor, we are at 19 people and 2 kids! However, most of our guests are coming from out of town and several have requested an invitation to the rehearsal dinner! I thought the rehearsal was just for the bridal party. Is there a way to invite these people, but at their own cost?
Relax - no one should request an invitation. That is not polite. Only those involved in the rehearsal (and their spouses, (or parents if there are children) need to be invited to the dinner. There is no way to invite and then ask them to pay. If anyone else asks to be invited gently let them know that you just do not have the accommodations for any more than those involved in the rehearsal. Offer them ideas and suggestions for restaurants and local entertainment.
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Rehearsal Dinner Invites
