I am a month away from my wedding. A girl that I attend church with and we are not friends keeps asking me when her invitation is going to arrive. This person and I are not friends, nor have we ever been. Other than a friendly "good Morning" on Sundays we don't even speak. For the past 3 weeks she zooms in on me as sson as I walk into the building and talks non stop about the wedding. How do I "nicely" tell her that she is not invited, and what do I do if she shows up for the wedding anyway. I am really worried that she may cause a scene. What do I do?
You should tell her immediately that the wedding will be a small, private event and, unfortunately, she cannot be invited. You're very sorry, blah, blah, blah.
If you're really worried about her showing up uninvited, have someone at the door to hold her at bay. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".