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sc bride


Feb 13, 2007, 4:06 PM

Post #1 of 3 (734 views)
     Self Invited Guest  

I am a month away from my wedding. A girl that I attend church with and we are not friends keeps asking me when her invitation is going to arrive. This person and I are not friends, nor have we ever been. Other than a friendly "good Morning" on Sundays we don't even speak. For the past 3 weeks she zooms in on me as sson as I walk into the building and talks non stop about the wedding. How do I "nicely" tell her that she is not invited, and what do I do if she shows up for the wedding anyway. I am really worried that she may cause a scene. What do I do?

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Feb 13, 2007, 4:10 PM

Post #2 of 3 (729 views)
     Re: [sc bride] Self Invited Guest [In reply to]  

You should tell her immediately that the wedding will be a small, private event and, unfortunately, she cannot be invited. You're very sorry, blah, blah, blah.

If you're really worried about her showing up uninvited, have someone at the door to hold her at bay.
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Feb 13, 2007, 4:42 PM

Post #3 of 3 (725 views)
     Re: [sc bride] Self Invited Guest [In reply to]  

I completely agree, the sooner, the better.
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now



 
 


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