We aren't sure what to do. We left directly after the reception for our honeymoon and a friend took all the gifts to my sister's house until we returned from our honeymoon. During the transportation of the gifts some of the cards fell off. There were four gifts without cards. We have no idea who they were from. How do we send thank you cards? We also received several cards only. So we have 8 cards and 4 gifts and don't know who gave what. Help!
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Jun 17, 2004, 1:06 PM
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Re: [cindyc] The cards were separated from the gifts
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Dear Yikes!
I really feel for you. This is a dilemma but it happens quite often. In fact, this is one of the reasons that people really should send their gifts to your home. The only thing I can think of for you to do is to be honest. Write to each person telling them what happened and that you are very happy to have been able to share your happiness with them during the celebration and that you are enjoying the gifts. Of course, you do not want it to sound like a form letter so include specific information pertaining to each person.
Re: [Et.byRebecca] The cards were separated from the gifts
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Thanks for the advise. I would feel better sending an acknowledgement nad thank you of some kind and I know people will understand. However, what if someone didn't bring a gift and I send them a thank you. Do you think that will make them feel bad?
Thanks
Cindy
Etiquette Now
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Jun 17, 2004, 1:35 PM
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Re: [cindyc] The cards were separated from the gifts
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If you are completely honest and include in your letter that the most precious gift was their company, I believe they will be fine. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
The cards were separated from the gifts
We aren't sure what to do. We left directly after the reception for our honeymoon and a friend took all the gifts to my sister's house until we returned from our honeymoon. During the transportation of the gifts some of the cards fell off. There were four gifts without cards. We have no idea who they were from. How do we send thank you cards? We also received several cards only. So we have 8 cards and 4 gifts and don't know who gave what. Help! 
