I have found similar questions to this but not exactly like my situation. I am getting married Sept. 29th 2007. We have been engaged since July of 2006 and we've spent a lot of time planning. My fiance's first cousin got engaged over Christmas and annouced the other day that she was setting the date for October 6th 2007! A week after mine! She said she did this because her sister, whose children are in my wedding, can just stay the week (they are from out of town) and then come to her wedding. We will share about 50 guests and I feel like most of them will have to chose whose wedding to come to since most of the guests are from out of town as well. Not everyone can drive to PA for my wedding, stay the week somewhere and then drive to OH for her wedding. Also, my fiance and I will not be able to attend because we will still be on our honeymoon. Lasty, I feel like she is stealing my thunder. Isn't every bride entitled to have some time where she gets to be in the spotlight? My questions is, can I say something to her about the date? How long should be between wedding dates? Please help!
moosie
Jan 16, 2007, 7:16 PM
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Re: [nervous bride] Wedding date conflict
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It wouldn't hurt to express your deep regret at not being able to attend her wedding, as you'll be on your honeymoon.