my fathers soon to be fourth wife (she is very nice) wants me to be matron of honor. i would rather not. is it wrong for me not too? she also could ask her best friend and her sisters. it was nice for her to ask but i dont like to be up in front of people. so how do i say no nicely with out her getting upset or disapointed? please help. thank you nicole
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Nicole -
Just tell her as you have explained it here. You're nervous in a big group. She probably already knows this about you. I doubt she'd be offended. Let her know how happy you are that she is marrying your dad.
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thank you so much for a quick answer. actually she thinks i am fine in big groups or in front of people. is there anything else you suggest i can say too her and my dad? thank you again for a quick reply.
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If this is really the reason you don't want to be in the wedding you'll have to explain it to her. I cannot think of any other way unless you have another real reason. Honesty is always the best policy - mixed with care. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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