My sister will have a 5 month old baby by the time I get married next year and lives 8 hours away. We have also grown apart. My parents really want her in my wedding. However I really would rather have a friend. My sister is very emotional and would be hurt if I did not ask her. However I feel that she will have enough on her plate. So now I am not sure what to do. Do I ask someone else or ask her to save on stress?
My other idea was just have both sets of parents stand up for us but the mom's can wear what they want. I believe this would decrease the stress amount.
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There is no right or wrong answer. This is a personal decision. Only you know the personalities of these people. Just know that you're not obligated to ask anoyone to be a member of the bridal party. You do need two witnesses though. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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