I have 4 bridesmaids that have been my friends for 20 years and am getting them a tote bag and jewelry. However, I have also asked my brothers girlfriend to hand out programs and do the guest book. Side note-she is also my nieces mother so she is technically a part of the family, but they are not married yet. I was going to get her jewelry as well but not the same as the bridesmaids. I feel like my mother is expecting me to do almost the same type of gifts for her as the bridesmaids so she doesn't feel excluded. I don't agree. Her level of participation is not the same and our relationship is nowhere near the same. I feel that a nice piece of monogrammed jewelry is sufficienct. What do you think?
You're not obligated to give any gifts (it's a nice gesture but gifts should never be expected) so anything you do give should be welcomed and appreciated. Give what you want to give, based on your feelings for the recipient and keeping your budget in mind. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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