I need help. I am the MOH in my sisters wedding. I have happily spent $400 on her bridal shower, $400 on her bachlorette party, $450 on a plane ticket, $200 on the dress, $50.00 on shoes, not to mention the hotel room for five days, the rental car, an engagement gift, an engagement party gift, a wedding shower gift, a bachlorette party gift, etc. Her wedding registry is a joke. They haven't asked for anything under $100.00 and most of the less expensive items require multiple pieces. She is breaking my bank account and I don't know what to do. Any ideas?
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First, you should note that engagement parties and bachelorette parties are not considered gift giving events so you weren't really expected to give any gifts there. And, just for the record, all pre-wedding parties such as showers and bachelorette parties are optional events. You were not obligated to host these. Typically bachelorette party expenses are shared by all guests.
When you agree to be a member of the bridal party, you also agree to incurring expenses such as transportation, attire, etc. It is expected that you will give your sister a wedding gift, but the amount you spend should be decided upon by you and determined by the relationship with the couple and your budget. You do not need to purchase off the registry. These are just suggestions. Go shopping and purchase something within your budget. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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Agreed. Plus, your sister should be paying for your lodging. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
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