Not attending wedding - do I have to send a gift?

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Not attending wedding - do I have to send a gift?

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zsoka

Aug 25, 2006, 10:15 AM

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Not attending wedding - do I have to send a gift?

If I'm invited to a wedding, but not able to attend, am I obligated to give a present?

(This post was edited by TWQadmin on Aug 25, 2006, 10:26 AM)

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Aug 25, 2006, 12:06 PM

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Re: [zsoka] Not attending wedding - do I have to send a gift? [In reply to]

Dear Guest,

Many etiquette books still state that an invitation obligates the receiver to send a gift. This is something I do not agree with. So, it is your choice.

Best wishes,
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now

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Aug 25, 2006, 3:01 PM

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Re: [zsoka] Not attending wedding - do I have to send a gift? [In reply to]

Plus, Peggy Post also says that if you are a casual aquaintence, business associate or you haven't seen the couple in years then you are not expected to send a gift.
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