My fiancee and I have decided to marry civily with a JP. When we told our friends they were very supportive, especially since down the line we plan on having a large renewing of the vows ceremony when we have a little more money. One of our friends asked us where we would be registering for gifts. Should we register for gifts if we're having this type of a wedding and should we have a reception? I had thought we'd just kind of have a small get together with those who mean the most to us and relax, but I think he had a larger reception in mind. We really don't have the money for much and he's leaving it up to me, but what's the best thing to do?
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Re: [fanadenye] Registering for gifts for a small civil wedding
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Dear What to do,
Most people don't register if they are having a small wedding and not many wedding guests. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't or can't. You can register just in case those who love you want to give you gifts because they know you are marrying. However, the gifts are wedding gifts, not reception gifts. So whether or not you plan a reception, won't have any baring on gift giving. But, many will give you a gift because they are happy for you.
A reception is a great idea. It really doesn't have to be a formal or expensive event. It could be exactly what you had in mind or you could have a larger event in your price range. I've known people who just had a large party with appetizers and drinks or outdoor barbecues. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
Registering for gifts for a small civil wedding
