I am the wedding coordinator for a very good friend. I have recently given a lingerie shower and purchased a gift. I was also invited to a linen shower, attended and gave a gift for this. Now, my question. I am providing my services as the wedding coordinator at no expense to the bride and groom. Am I still expected to give a "wedding gift"?
Thanks.
J. Norton
Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT
Oct 11, 2006, 11:15 AM
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Re: [joynor] SHOWER AND WEDDING GIFTS
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Dear J. Norton,
You shouldn't have been invited or expected to give a gift for two showers. This is not proper and is considered greedy gift-grabbing behavior.
No, you are not expected to give a wedding gift. Your gift is your services.