Does a single working mom, who pushed herself very hard to pay for a wedding (far more than she could afford) that had to come together in about 3 weeks, traditionally get a thank-you gift from her daughter, or both bride and groom? The couple received many thousands in gift money, and promptly bought a new car. Is there standard etiquette on this issue?
TWQadmin
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Jul 6, 2005, 2:41 PM
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Re: [bacchus] Thank you gift for mother of bride?
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Some couples do purchase gifts for their parents but it's not obligatory. Although it is nice to receive a gift, gifts should never be expected. You really shouldn't expect more than the couples gratitude. As a parent myself I know there are many times I have gone out of my way for my children like working longer hours in order to provide more for them or in other ways but we do these things because we love our children and not in expectation of...well...anything. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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Jul 6, 2005, 3:36 PM
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The etiquette, so to speak, is that couples "should" thank all those who have given toward their wedding. That thank you may come in the form of a card, gift or simply verbally. However, they are not obliged to give a gift as a token of thanks. Rhonda Allen, Bridal Consultant New Beginnings Weddings