My close friend is getting married but she has not registry and I have no idea what to get. She is marrying the man she has been with for ten years and they already own their own home together. Money is very tight right now and I cannot spend much money. Is something small for both the shower and wedding okay? I can't afford a lot and they already have everything that would be traditional wedding gifts.
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Re: [mtmunroe] no registry what to give
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It is traditional to give a gift for each event, one for the shower and one for the wedding. However, there are ways you can give two gifts on a tight budget.
1. If you have any crafting talent consider making a keepsake. Gifts like hand crocheted afghans, fabric covered wedding albums and custom framed wedding invitations are just a few suggestions.
3. Since your friends own their own home you might select a gift certificate from a home improvement store in a dollar amount to fit your budget. This suggestion is my least favorite since I feel that the enjoyment in the gift comes from seeing what the giver selects for me but the store you select can be unique.
There is no "rule" about how much money to spend on a gift so think about your friends and choose something special, something they will treasure as a momento of their special day and remember you while using or appreciating the gift. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".